I once asked
my friend, "What is the secret behind your happy married life?"
He replied, "You should share responsibilities with due love, and respect
to each other. Then absolutely there will be no problems.”
I asked,
“Can you explain?” He said, “In my house, I take
decisions o " I asked, "Can you explain?" He said, "In my
house, I take decisions on bigger issues whereas my wife decides on smaller
issues. We do not interfere in each other's decisions." . .
Still not convinced, I asked me him to give me
some examples. .
. He said, "Smaller issues like how many kids
to have, the neighborhood to live, which car we should buy, how much money to
save, who, when and where to visit, which sofa, cooker, refrigerator to buy,
monthly expenses, whether to keep a maid or not, where to go for holidays,
whose mum we should visit etc, etc, are decided by my wife. I just agree to it.
" I then asked, "So then what is your
role?" ." I asked, "Can you explain?" He said, "In my
house, I take decisions on bigger issues whereas my wife decides on smaller
issues. We do not interfere in each other's decisions." . .
Still not convinced, I asked me him to give me
some examples. .
. He said, "Smaller issues like how many kids
to have, the neighborhood to live, which car we should buy, how much money to
save, who, when and where to visit, which sofa, cooker, refrigerator to buy,
monthly expenses, whether to keep a maid or not, where to go for holidays,
whose mum we should visit etc, etc, are decided by my wife. I just agree to it.
" I then asked, "So then what is your
role?" . " I asked, "Can you explain?" He said, "In my
house, I take decisions on bigger issues whereas my wife decides on smaller
issues. We do not interfere in each other's decisions." . .
Still not convinced, I asked me him to give me
some examples. .
. He said, "Smaller issues like how many kids
to have, the neighborhood to live, which car we should buy, how much money to
save, who, when and where to visit, which sofa, cooker, refrigerator to buy,
monthly expenses, whether to keep a maid or not, where to go for holidays,
whose mum we should visit etc, etc, are decided by my wife. I just agree to it.
" I then asked, "So then what is your
role?" .
.He said, "My decisions are only for very big
issues. Like whether America should attack Iran, the uranium enrichment in
North Korea, whether Britain should lift sanctions against Zimbabwe, how to
fully exploit Africa's economic and intellectual potential, whether Yoweri
Museveni and Barack Obama should retire, whether Arsenal FC needs to buy new
players or change their coach to improve their play, whether Usain Bolt should
retire now-while still at his prime etc, etc. My wife never objects to any of
these decisions and we live happily!"n bigger issues whereas my wife
decides on smaller issues. We do not interfere in each other’s decision…”
Still
not convinced, I
asked him to give me some examples…
He said,
“Smaller issues like how many kids to have, the neighborhood to live,